Sunday, November 30, 2008
Thanksgiving!!
Everyone is gearing up for Tabaski, which is THE big holiday for muslims here. Surprisingly though, mali is much less conservative than I originally thought it would be, its much like America in its religiosity. Anyway, i digress, so Tabaski is on december 8th or 9th depending on the moon, and everyone sacrifices sheep and eats a ton of meat, and dances and stays up all night for 3 days. I have 2 malian complets to wear, which the people in my town will love because they are obsessed with when I dress malian. hahaha. And i'm buying some chickens for my family to kill too. Its going to be an intense three days, but I'm excited. And then after that my friend gemma is going to come out to my site for a couple of days. I went to her site last week, and it was really fun to see someone else's village. Plus its fun when people visit because you can joke around a lot more and feed off of each other.
Anyway, those are all my updates for now. I heard hillary is going to be secretary of state, go her, love the girl. And that plaxico burress shot himself in the thigh, really? Reallly plaxico? I thought mrs. plaxico taught you better than that.
Monday, November 17, 2008
Post election life at site
The other day I went into the fields with my family to beat rice. So Malians farm rice, which is still beyond me because rice is such a water-intensive crop, and Mali is a pretty damn arid place. But, alas, they have a rice variety that grows, it still requires much more water than other crops but grows pretty well. It tastes like rice pilaf in the States does, I actually really like it. But I digress. So after they cut it down they have to beat the stalks to get the rice off. So they dry it out and then put it on tarps, and take big sticks and literally beat the rice stalks until the rice grains fall off. So I went out to help my family, it was a great way to get out stress. Haha. It was HARD WORK!!! They made me take my camera and so I captured some excellent photos including my host brother took a couple of pictures of me. The whole town knew by the end of the day that I had gone out into the fields and they all thought it was hilarious. And my family let me sleep after an afternoon snack. After that I helped my host mom cook. And man, is she a lady after my own heart. (My mom would love her). She is the only Malian woman I have ever seen to eat while she is cooking. She tasted everything and of course, let me taste everything as we went along. We snacked the whole time and she basically let me do the equivalent of licking the bowel when we were done. It was fantastic. Most women just do their cooking, put in the correct amount of ingredients and wait for the men until they eat anything. Not my host mom!!! She is my favorite of my three mothers, even before our cooking episode.
Annnnnnd, my host brother put up half of a massive hangar that is going over mine and his house. It is amaaaazing. He put up my half first, so now I have this huge shaded area right outside my house. It’s a great place to sit and chat with my family and stuff. My family likes to hang out there now, which is fun because I like having everyone around talking and playing and making fun of each other. And my two younger brothers who are probably about 2 have recently learned both my name and “ça va”. So now every morning I get a “Sanaba, ça va?”. Haha.
I met this guy in my town that calls me “his sister” in an accent that sounds like a Jamaican Rastafarian man. I had never actually talked to him so I went to sit down to tea with him and he was fascinating!! He’s from Timbuktu and is probably about 50. He’s the president of the refugee camp and has been working with different NGOs to start dialogues about development and why Mali is so much less developed than the countries surrounding it. He is working with a Swiss NGO to open a cultural center in Bamako where he hopes to bring in speakers, like the minister of education and different ambassadors to talk to young people about developmental issues. Which I think is a great idea. He was really interested in what I had to say about the school system, women’s rights, and all sorts of things. And so I think I’m going to start working with him on some projects, which will be great.
So that was my week! Next week we are going out to Sikasso for a huge thanksgiving celebration! We have a bunch of turkeys, are making mashed potatoes, green beans, salad, and all sorts of desserts (and of course some beverages to go along with that). I am very excited! And then we are going camping by water falls. So all in all, while it won’t compare with the Whiteley family thanksgivings which always end up being highly amusing (and I expect reports on all the gossip that goes down danny, tanna, and travis), it will be fun. And it will be nice to be with a bunch of my friends and to see people I haven’t seen in a while.
Oh, and I tried to post on the comments but not sure if it went through. Yes, Emily, I can wear pants. The Malians LOVE LOVE LOVE when I wear Malians clothes. They always tell me how good the skirts make my butt look, hahaha. But I wear pants a lot actually. And Yeh-von, nice to see you!!! Thanks for checking in! I guess I’ll allow tanna to keep you for a while longer, and I won’t take a flight back to America just to kick you in the shin. Too bad, because let’s not lie to ourselves, that would be pretty funny if I just showed up at your apartment all the way from Africa to kick you in the shin and run away. Don’t put it past me.
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
Election Day!
Life around here has been pretty, well, hot... Its mini hot season, fun fun. But the nights are getting cooler and soon apparently the days will be cool enough to wear long sleeves. I hear it snowed on my birthday in NJ!! I'm jealous. Speaking of my birthday, it was a lot of fun! My friends made me banana bread pudding and sang for me. And I got ice cream, which was definately a treat. So overall, it was a good 23. I got some cards from my parents, and my sis, good work tanns. And travis finally emailed me, little punk.
I've gotten some good updates about the record of the Giants. I always knew eli would pull through for me. I'm sure we'll do something for the super bowl, so Eli better keep up this record.
Right now i'm gearing up to finish the project that the guy before me started. The money is coming through, and I have a plan of action for all the supplies I have to buy. So that will keep me busy through January. And then we have in service training for basically the entire month of January, which will be a long break from site. My language is going really well, I can actually participate in most conversations! And of course, there is french, which I speak a lottttt. Most of my friends are people who speak french because I can have legit conversations with them. But, I'm getting pretty good at figuring out Bambara, its a fairly easy language to learn, which is nice, since most of the gossip around the town is spoken in bambara. And we all know how much I love the gossip. hahaha. Just kiddddinggg.
And for a little story. The other day my host family came home with a lizard, that I swear was the size of a komodo dragon. And they thought it was hilarious that I was scared of it, so they pretended to have it walk towards me and bite me. haha. After we tossed it on a fire and ate it. I have to say, it was actually quite delicious. Ok that is all for now. Hope everyone is voting!!!
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Thursday, October 9, 2008
1 month into site
I’ve been making some friends, well, sitting around drinking overly sweetened tea speaking in partial bambara partial French and sitting in silence a lot. But still, it’s a start. Haha. I’ve read a bunch of books, oh including the Red Tent, which my mom has been wanting me to read FOREVER. And now I understand why. It was a great book.
It was just Selitini – the Fete of Ramadan. After Ramadan is over there is a big party, its not as big as Tabaski (seliba) which is in December, but it was still pretty fun. Its like thanksgiving mixed with Halloween. The children all go around door to door and ask for change and money, and everyone else eats a ton and walks around to greet each other and bless each other. Kia (my pseudo host mom, I don’t remember if I explained this, but I eat lunch at the previous volunteer’s host family, and hang out there a lot too) so anyway, she dressed me up in one of her outfits (which she then gave to me!!!) And we walked around, and my host sisters painted henna on my hands and feet. Everyone was more than excited to see me in Malian garb. Hahaha. They all loved it, and made me promise I would do it again for Tabaski.
Sometimes I feel like I am in some random town in the States, and sometimes I look around and I’m like, oh man, I’m in Africa. I think the oh my god I’m in Africa moments come at weird times, like the other day, I was sitting in the refugee camp in my town, sipping on hot whole milk (if you drink milk here you have to boil it then drink it immediately so it doesn’t grow bacteria, and its fresh so its completely whole), munching on raw peanuts straight out of the ground, and listening to Celine Dion blast in the background, and the family I was chatting with asked me if I wanted to borrow the Celine Dion cassette tape because I was singing along. And it hit me that I wasn’t in America anymore (although I bet you could find a similar scene to this somewhere in the south). Another time it hit me was when my host brother asked me if I knew what “I ni gwa” meant, and I said thanks for the food, and he said, no, thank you for preparing the food. So I replied with “c’est la meme chose, Hitler”, which made me laugh for a while. It’s the little things, I guess. I do have to say, there are some things that I love about Mali that cant be found in the states. My favorite thing is the smell of tea when it hits the hot coals its heated on. It smells like burnt marshmallows, but better. And right before the rain storms roll in, it gets really windy and black. Annnnd, there is a fruit for basically every season. Right now its guava and banana season, and the guavas are absolutely amazing. Soon its watermelons, then the famed mango season. For which I cannot wait. And the rainy season is wrapping up now, which means mini hot season, but soon it will be cold season, which will be really nice. Because hot season is supposed to be brutal!!!
This morning was probably about 75 degrees, I, of course, wore a tank top and a wrap skirt, and I was sitting for a bus and everyone was bundled up. I mean bundled. Like winter coats, like legit parkas, pants, sneakers socks, hats, long sleeves. And everyone was like aren’t you cold? And I said that this weather felt amaaaaazing. They thought I was crazy. Although, I think they already think I’m crazy most of the time, so its nothing really new. Hahaha.
Oh, and there are times when I forget I’m in Mali, which I know may be hard to believe. But its things like how all children, everywhere in the world, spin around in circles and then try to run in a straight line only to fall down, get up, and do it again. Or watching a basketball game and everyone is cheering on the sidelines, the women dressed to impress the athletes and chatting not even watching the game. Or someone coming up behind you and tapping you on the opposite shoulder and pretending that they didn’t do it. And, on the fete of Ramadan, they had potato sack races and the race where you put an egg on a spoon and put the spoon in your mouth and do a relay race. And of course, watching soccer matches is exciting no matter where you are, and the kids here are genuinely really good. They play every Thursday in my town against another town, and the games are really fun to watch!
Alright, that’s all for now. Miss everyone!! I want to hear gossip from the states!!!
Friday, September 26, 2008
Life en Brousse
Im already restarting the project that began with the last volunteer so that keeps me busy. I am on a french keyboard now so this isnt going to be too long, usually i can type my posts on my comp first but i was too lazy yesterday after writing some emails so the next one will be longer. I promise. Miss everybody so much. AND EMILY I LOVED LOVED LOVED THE MAGAZINES
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Bye Bye Homestay, Hello Site.
Leaving homestay was actually really sad. My dad killed 2 chickens for me for a big dinner the night before we left. And they made my favorite dinner with it, rice with peanut sauce and african eggplants. oooohhh man. I gave them a 25 kilo bag of rice and 10 kilos of sugar too as a thank you, and they were sooooo surprised and so excited. I was glad that I could give them something because they have really been amazing. Annnnd, tomorrow night they invited one person from every host family to come for dinner so my dad is coming. And my friend beatrice's dad is coming too, which is going to be soooooo much fun b/c we all just sit around and make fun of each other. So I'm really really excited for tomorrow night. So anyway, leaving was hard, malians don't like crying, they never ever cry and always stop children from crying, so my host dad said bye and then disappeared into his house, and my sisters had to leave before I actually left. It was cute, and I will definately be visiting them in the future since they are on my way back to Bamako. And, I promised that if my parents came to visit I would take them there to meet my host family. They had a big party for us too, and the town came out and thanked us (we did some health talks, painted a mural, and taught them how to make more nutritious food for their children). They said some really amazing things about how they had never met white people like us who treated them equally and such. It was very heartfelt. And we thanked them so so much for everything they have done for us. I literally would not have survived without them.
Oh and my mom sent me this singing card that when you open it up it plays music. And it was the most fantastic thing that my host village had ever seen. hahaha. They would all open it, and then look at me like I was the devil, then start to smile, and then just start laughing hysterically. They really loved it. And then they would make me put it back in my house and wouldnt let the little kids touch it because they were afraid it would get broken or something. Oh and with that, I cant put my address on my blog for safety reasons, but I can email it out (emily I will email it to you!!!) if you feel the need to send some mail my way. hahaha.
And on to more important things, I SAW BATMAN LAST NIGHT. oh my god. that is all I can say. It was a spanish bootleg version, and I still loved it. It was everything I had wanted and more, which was hard because I built up that movie so so much. Oh man. i cant even talk about it. What a great great job.
Humm. So it is ramadan now, and since Mali is predominately muslim, everyone has to fast during the day. They dont eat or drink from sun up to sun down, which is crazzzzy, since they are still farming and working. But Mali, as a whole, is definately not as conservative as it first seems. So a lot of people don't fast, if they are sick, or pregnant, or older. Or people will do one day on one day off. But, for me, its great, b/c I still get to eat, and when they break the fast they have really good hibiscus juice and this sweet porridge stuff that is amazing. And then they have a huge dinner. Works for me. hahaha. Except when people are crabby and annoyed because they are starving, that's not so fun. But still. And Tabaski comes a month or so after ramadan ends, and there is a big feast for that. So that is exciting. Kinda makes up for the lack of christmas. hahaha.
I am sure that there are other things I am forgetting. But mostly we're just waiting for swear in and site installation. Sooooo that's all for now!!
Monday, August 18, 2008
Random Details
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Site Visit!!
The guy I'm replacing also had started a project that hasn't been completed yet, so I'm going to attempt to finish them. its a little daunting, but It'll keep me busy for the first few months which are supposed to be the hardest and it'll get me into the community faster than if I didn't have anything to do. And it's a really great project that I think the town will really appreciate. Plus if all else fails, I told him that I would frantically call him up and he would have to fix whatever I mess up. hahaha. Ok my computer is running out of battery and I need to find a plug, but I will report more soon!!
Wednesday, August 6, 2008
Site Visit Here I Come
Monday, July 28, 2008
N Togo Sanaba Sacko
The hardest parts so far have been the frustrations with communication. It is so so tiring to always be on. I have to always be thinking about communicating and trying to communicate. I never thought it would be such a relief when I hear french. Its like I can finally speak in full sentences. My bambara is actually getting pretty good though, I told my host family all about my US family and what everyone does (minus the karate part because they didn't really get that but I got teacher across about my mom and dad, and they think that's great). They thought that the fact that tanna, danny, and I aren't married was like the funniest thing in the entire world. Women here get married around 16 and men get married around 20. But anyway, so that's difficult/tiring not being able to speak english. And it has been really tiring getting used to the diet, I was really low energy for a while because the lack of protein and stuff, but I my body is starting to get used to it now. And a bunch of people met up at a bar last week, so that was definitely a relief to see other americans.
So now I am back at the training site after 2 weeks at homestay. We find out our sites tomorrow, so everyone is nervous/anxious to find out. I am trying to put up pictures too but we'll see if that happens. I know I am missing things that I want to say, so I will probably post again tomorrow!!!
Monday, July 14, 2008
Camp Mali
So,